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December 07, 2021
Of Locals & Laughter

Good Morning Friends & Digital Neighbors! Happy Tuesday to all of you who roam about Local's and find community in it various havens. We have talked in our Coffee Chat about the challenges of being in too many communities if you really want to have some sort of meaningful engagement or keep track of all the members. I spend most of my time roaming on my three main haunts as well as my own hole in the wall. Every now and again I pop in on Scott Adams and Malice whom I support as a member but don't have the time to cultivate the community. I joined Tulsi & the Gutter when they first popped on Locals, but once again realized that there wasn't enough time and I didn't want to spend even more time in front of the computer than I already do. I am sure there are many, many more good communities out there in Locals. Choose wisely. If you really want to get to know the neighbors in your Locals, being a Supporter allows the engagement that builds community. Members can like anything they want, or just ignore things, sort of like people you pass on the street. They can smile at you or just keep walking by unawares.

I ended up here because I enjoyed @DaveRubin when he was on Patreon. When they started censoring and he left along with Peterson and others, I waited for the creation of Locals. I was attracted to Rubin Report for the conversation, the questions and the laughter. I listened to him more than Joe Rogan, three hours seems like a date too long more often than not. I have since learned the magic of slowly ingesting the Rogan Experience. I expected something similar to the Patreon experience of Dave, but have found the community so much more substantial. No community is perfect, and The Sours will often make their opinions known. While not as bad as trolls and poison they bring to communities, the Sours always wait for things to go bad. Their brief moment of happiness is the 'I told you so" moment. It is a premature type of joy, almost a joy for them, but not really, you know, because they told you so.😉

The dark days of the Lockdown were illuminated by the Dumpster Fire and an instant appreciation of @Bridgetphetasy humor. Low and behold she did Walk-Ins Welcome and had a similar interview style to Dave Rubin. To discover that she has a Local's community was an even greater gain. While I would describe the Rubin Report Community as Politics & Culture with humor, Phetasy is humor with commentary on culture and the insanity of modern life. A roost for the political homeless and those who free range in the world of politics and culture. I missed the diversity I would encounter in my local hobby shop for board games & RPGs because it went super WOKE in light of the George Floyd chapter. There is even more good diversity at Phetasy.

Both the Rubin Report & Phetasy have a healthy vibe of members who share their pet photos, cooking stuff, and a whole plethora of hobbies and connections with similar people and enough respectful diversity to appreciate that other have different thoughts, experiences and concerns. There is no need for group-feel and herd-think, in fact there is no need for agreement, disagreements can be made without maligning the individual. One might malign ideas, precious causes and even a deeply held beliefs without attacking the person. The questioning or even maligning of such things should open the door to conversation, reflection and perhaps further learning about your beloved cause. When done well, in the end people can still step back and laugh. Laughter matters more than even feeling right about my convictions. My convictions still matter, but that is a me issue to work out in the mist of life. Laughter does more to create the bonds that keep us human and humane. Where there is laughter, there is community. Where there isn't laughter, there usually boredom, and often eventually oppression. The joyless crusaders of the Extremes have shown that in countless YT clips. Well - enough babbling, one to some memes and no winter photos today.

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Born into a bourgeois family during the reign of Louis XIV, the “Sun King” (r. 1643-1715), Voltaire suffered tragedy at a young age when his mother died. Never close with his father or brother, Voltaire exhibited a rebellious attitude toward authority from his youth. His brilliant mind was fostered in the care of the Society of Jesus, who introduced him to the joys of literature and theater. Despite his later criticisms against the Church, Voltaire, throughout his life, fondly recalled his dedicated Jesuit teachers.

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Padre - Tom Miller invites you to a Coffee Talk, Speakeasies, Schmoozes, Tea Times, Afterhours and other gatherings.

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Occurs every day starting 1/1 until 12/31/2027

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The Comforting of the Disciple

The Comforting of the Disciple

Now the Beloved often came into the Garden both because of the great joy He had in the Garden and because of the great love He bore the Lover and the Disciple.  Often He talked with the Lover, but the Disciple because he was not yet perfected in Love could neither hear nor see the Beloved, though he often felt a strange joy, he did not know why.  Therefore he was sorrowful, for it seemed to him that on account of his sins he would never find the Beloved.  So weeping he came to the Lover and said, “Sir, I know that I am a very sinful man and I much fear that though I search all my life yet on account of my sins I shall never find the Beloved.”

In reply the Lover smiled gently and said, “My son, when you first came into the Garden do you remember what sort of day it was?”

“Yes,” said the Disciple, “I remember it.  It was dark and gloomy as if no sunlight ever entered the Garden.”

“When you began to strip off your rich robes,” the Lover asked, “what happened to the day?”

“It seemed,” said the Disciple, “as if the sun had suddenly broken through the clouds and the whole Garden shone with glorious and celestial light:  such light as shines daily in the Garden.”

The Lover replied, “Know that the Beloved Himself is the light of the Garden, so that when you began searching for the Beloved even then you found Him, for how can any know the desire to search for the Beloved if He had not already without his knowing revealed Himself to him.”

So the Disciple was greatly comforted by knowing that although he could not see or hear Him he had already found the Beloved, and he labored the more joyously to do the service of the Beloved.

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Thoughts on Alan - Updated with Alan's e-mail address

Dear ADD Irregulars,

Alan has decided to step away from our community for a while. He may return, but right now he’s in a difficult chapter of life. This past year has been especially rough for him—depression, anxiety, unemployment, and some challenging family situations.

I spoke with him briefly on Telegram. He admitted to feeling worn down, and the recent football meme hit him at exactly the wrong moment and in the wrong state of mind. He didn’t sound like he was blaming Rich, but in his current vulnerability, he experienced the exchange as unnecessarily mean-spirited. I suspect the “whiny-cunt” line cut much deeper than it normally would have.

That’s the funny and frightening thing about emotions: on a good day, that back-and-forth between Alan and Rich would have been hilarious. On a bad day, it was simply too much. No one could have known beforehand.

In Alan’s own words: “I saw it at exactly the wrong moment and it just hit me as unnecessarily mean spirited which was something I just didn't expect and am really not in a place to cope with at the moment.”

This is the danger of this medium. We log on hoping for relief or distraction, and instead we sometimes encounter something that offends, outrages, or wounds us. I feel for Alan—I know from previous conversations that this has not been a good year for him.

Let this be a reminder to all of us: Do not venture onto the internet when you’re in a state of emotional vulnerability. It rarely goes the way we hope. Pressure always seeks an escape valve, and online spaces are full of sharp edges. It is far better to talk with a real person—call someone and hear a human voice with all its nuance—than to stare at static words on a screen that you can reread over and over, each time deepening the wound.

Praying for Alan and so sorry he is at this chapter in his life. I am guessing he might be open to any of us reaching out. I don't really know.  I know he is still on telegram, but not sure how esle to contact him.

Rich, if you read this I hope you chalk it under unfortunate shit happens. On most other days that post would have generated the funny back and forth that we have seen many times in the past.  I am sure Alan would be open to any conversation with you, that is an invitation never an expectation. 

[email protected]  For anyone who might want to contact Alan. 

 

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