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December 18, 2022

Good Morning Friends across Locals! Happy Sunday Refugees, Early Birds & Later Dayers, Phamily, Dawn Patrol and Political Homeless. Hey there Triggeratti, Fascinating People and Beautiful Bigots, you Seekers of Sanity and Civility and finally all of you Supporters, Members and Lurkers across these wonderful communities and last but not least the ADD Irregulars and Vagabonds of the WSN.

Double header in today's post - The Fourth Sunday of Advent and the Messianic Title of O Lord. As the final week of Advent the readings at Mass always turn our attention to the either the person of St. Joseph of the Blessed Virgin Mary. We look at how their yes opened to the door to the Mystery of the Incarnation. Yes to God, the the Mysterium, to the Numen can change your life. Some embark on the path of selfless sainthood or mysticism, others become the worst type of demagogues and fanatics that menace their neighbors. While many want to blame religion for the worst events in world history, it is really human nature pushed through various funnels of behavior, indoctrination and the removal of critical thought and questioning that brings out the worst of us. Sadly for many, it doesn't take much to remove critical thought and thus questions and doubts never arise. They are the potential for the best of herdthink and worst of mob mentality. I am not sure how much of humanity prefers to be led and told, but the number of worrisomely high. Good leaders (not perfect, there are none), real shepherds are invaluable to the safety, well-being and improvement of the flock. We need good people willing to lead. And today's O' Antiphon speaks of the Lord of Sinai who gives the law to govern the children of Israel.

LORD - Unless you run in religious circles, play medieval fantasy games, are active in the SCA https://www.sca.org/about/ you probably don't use Lord as much more than a low grade profanity or expletive. For the record I was never active in the SCA even if I am D & D geek, but I was often fascinated by their activities on campus when they did their "historical" reenactments. Too often they were the lowest rung of dorkness or geekdom on campus.

Lord - a rather heavy word and concept since it carries authority in its meaning. Hard to think positivity of any authority these days since we have seen far more misuse of authority than humble or selfless use of authority. There are almost no George Washington's left among the the political leadership, corporate leadership, or people within institutions of influence. I would add religious institutions since they still carry influence in the lives of many. Power doesn't always corrupt, but there are few who can resist its misuse and abuse. Unaccountable power inevitably tilts towards to abuse and the illusion that you are unaccountable or above accountability leads to its more rapid abuse. A Good Lord (an occasional expletive among the gentler crowd) is hard to find. Washington was not perfect, but that he walked away from his position is remarkable.

Anything you cannot walk away from without authoritarian abuse is an unhealthy community or relationship. And by abuse, I mean your life or livelihood being threatened with injury or termination. I guess many are tempted to say that makes almost all governments and the societies created around them unhealthy. Enemedia, Big Tech, Academia, Wokertainment, Uni-party Careerist and now Big Pharma Addicts have all created cultures of punishment for the outliers, heretics and scapegoats that they designate. They often don't have to do anything themselves, they have flash cancel mobs ready to mobilize on-line and occasionally show up for peaceful protests. Not an abundance of Good Lords or Ladies as it were. I am not so black pilled or jaded to think there are no good people in positions of authority in life, but they are infrequent and rarely celebrated in the current culture. They probably like it that way to be honest, celebrity is one of the quickest ways to wreck your life. Fame almost always comes with an unmooring from reality as your perception of self-important surpasses your actual contribution to humanity. I hope you have had the good fortune of finding people in good leadership positions at work or in elsewhere in life. Authority and accountability can open to the door to leadership excelling for the good of all, but as soon as the sense of accountability or actual accountability disappears, its abuse almost is almost instantaneous.

If you ever find yourself in a position of Lord or Ladyship, I hope you can handle the authority entrusted to you with responsibility and humility. Good Lord, I am thankful I believe in One and I am thankful that my path along life has been filled with a number of humble servant leaders and only few authoritarian d-bags. I am not talking about the world beyond daily interaction, as mentioned previously there are too many who abuse or misuse authority in the world at large. The bigger the stage, the larger the fraud. Not always, but often. Daily interactions with real people in life and on Locals keeps the cynicism and resignation at bay. Ever a skeptic, never a cynic. I strive for that, but is not easy. The two are so similar but skepticism opens the door to questions, to hope, to change, cynicism does the opposite. They look the same at the beginning emotional & intellectual onset, but yield very different results. Blessed Sunday my friends across Locals, you are remembered daily in my prayers and so many of you are thought of fondly and with gratitude for being among the people who brighten my life.

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Now the Beloved often came into the Garden both because of the great joy He had in the Garden and because of the great love He bore the Lover and the Disciple.  Often He talked with the Lover, but the Disciple because he was not yet perfected in Love could neither hear nor see the Beloved, though he often felt a strange joy, he did not know why.  Therefore he was sorrowful, for it seemed to him that on account of his sins he would never find the Beloved.  So weeping he came to the Lover and said, “Sir, I know that I am a very sinful man and I much fear that though I search all my life yet on account of my sins I shall never find the Beloved.”

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Dear ADD Irregulars,

Alan has decided to step away from our community for a while. He may return, but right now he’s in a difficult chapter of life. This past year has been especially rough for him—depression, anxiety, unemployment, and some challenging family situations.

I spoke with him briefly on Telegram. He admitted to feeling worn down, and the recent football meme hit him at exactly the wrong moment and in the wrong state of mind. He didn’t sound like he was blaming Rich, but in his current vulnerability, he experienced the exchange as unnecessarily mean-spirited. I suspect the “whiny-cunt” line cut much deeper than it normally would have.

That’s the funny and frightening thing about emotions: on a good day, that back-and-forth between Alan and Rich would have been hilarious. On a bad day, it was simply too much. No one could have known beforehand.

In Alan’s own words: “I saw it at exactly the wrong moment and it just hit me as unnecessarily mean spirited which was something I just didn't expect and am really not in a place to cope with at the moment.”

This is the danger of this medium. We log on hoping for relief or distraction, and instead we sometimes encounter something that offends, outrages, or wounds us. I feel for Alan—I know from previous conversations that this has not been a good year for him.

Let this be a reminder to all of us: Do not venture onto the internet when you’re in a state of emotional vulnerability. It rarely goes the way we hope. Pressure always seeks an escape valve, and online spaces are full of sharp edges. It is far better to talk with a real person—call someone and hear a human voice with all its nuance—than to stare at static words on a screen that you can reread over and over, each time deepening the wound.

Praying for Alan and so sorry he is at this chapter in his life. I am guessing he might be open to any of us reaching out. I don't really know.  I know he is still on telegram, but not sure how esle to contact him.

Rich, if you read this I hope you chalk it under unfortunate shit happens. On most other days that post would have generated the funny back and forth that we have seen many times in the past.  I am sure Alan would be open to any conversation with you, that is an invitation never an expectation. 

[email protected]  For anyone who might want to contact Alan. 

 

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