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October 08, 2021
Conformity & Collywobbles

Happy Friday Friends and Digital Neighbors! Busy day at the parish yesterday and all the volunteers gave generously of their time and energy. A few have very strong preferences for how things ought to be which doesn’t always lead to a spirit of cooperation.

Red Barn Around Fall Foliage Photograph by Susan Candelario. On to the quotes & photo.

A man must consider what a rich realm he abdicates when he becomes a conformist. - Ralph Waldo Emerson, Journals

Do not think you are on the right road just because it is a well beaten path. - Unknown

Whenever you find yourself on the side of the majority, it is time to pause and reflect. - Mark Twain, Notebook

Somewhere between being a complete contrarian and total conformist is the path to individuality and community. Everyone works out the mixture for themselves. That you are on Locals, whichever community you have joined, means you probably value the contrarian side of the fence a little more at least in terms of freedom and individual expression. If you wanted conformity, there are plenty of legacy social medias were you could have remained. The freedom to question, to disagree, to express yourself and yet not be a self-righteous ass or dismissive jerk to those with different opinion or experiences seems to be a better balance than herding along or sitting silently in forced compliance.

Of course there are attitudes, ideas and behaviors that need to be mocked on the extremes, and in our neglect some extreme ideas and creeping conformity have crept out of academia and other cultural bastions. It is somewhat ironic that there can be diversity in almost every area of life except thought. Wrong-think is the greatest of evils. I suppose we all have different attitudes or ideas that would be on our personalized list of mockables. When people mock what you appreciate, it can give you a bad case of the collywobbles if you are not confident in what you hold dear.

COLLYWOBBLES - Stomach pain or sickness from nervous anxiety. Noun | cahl-ee-wahb-uhls | Nineteenth century. English.

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