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Good Morning Digital Neighbors! Happy Monday ADD Irregulars, all of you dear Purveyors and Patrons of the Weird Shit Niche'! I hope you had a great weekend. Hot as blazes here in nowhere's Missouri, but enjoyable none the less as things go.

How about some fun quotes from The Portable Curmudgeon this week? While Fred, Rich & I are self-professed curmudgeons, it certainly is not limited to us or just to men. Any fine soul wearied of the bullshit, skeptical of the current narrative and and at times just puzzled, perplexed and occasionally pissed at the mess that is humanity and culture. A fun definition as it were from The Portable Curmudgeon:

A curmudgeon’s reputation for malevolence is undeserved. They’re neither warped nor evil at heart. They don’t hate mankind, just mankind’s excesses. They’re just as sensitive and soft-hearted as the next guy, but they hide their vulnerability beneath a crust of misanthropy. They ease the pain by turning hurt into humor. They snarl at pretense and bite at hypocrisy out of a healthy sense of outrage. They attack maudlinism because it devalues genuine sentiment. They hurl polemical thunderbolts at middle-class values and pop culture in order to preserve their sanity. Nature, having failed to equip them with a serviceable denial mechanism, has endowed them with astute perception and sly wit. Offense is their only defense. Their weapons are irony, satire, sarcasm, ridicule. Their targets are pretense, pomposity, conformity, incompetence.

OFF TO THE QUOTES! - The Heart of a Curmudgeon

To believe is very dull. To doubt is intensely engrossing To be alert is to live, to be lulled into security is to die. - Oscar Wilde.

A person of faith could find such a quote off-putting, but I don't. Doubt does not exclude faith, one can wrestle with many doubts and still profess faith and seek its growth. I tend to think that when there is no doubt, faith and belief run the risk of becoming stagnate and to comfortable to help the Believer grow and mature. Life is an adventure or it is nothing at all. Helen Keller knew that truth and lived it in world of exploration beyond what could have been a life long imprisonment prior to her awakening to understanding.
To be lulled into security ironically is one of the things that often compromises the security you thought you possessed. It is a bitter irony that is only discovered after it has failed to protect you. I think many parents found that out in 2020 when they realized that their children no longer needed to go to college to screw up their lives and minds. It can begin as early as grade school thanks to the corruption of "higher education".

To knock a thing down, especially if it is cocked at an arrogant angle, is a deep delight of the blood. - George Santayana

Few things can withstand the assault of good humor. It punctures pride and pretense quicker than anything else. While wisdom can build character, humor serves as a a rather abrasive polish to knock away the rust and smooth the edges. Arrogance is such an insufferable reality. It used to be the sole property of the overly religious, the wealthy and the famous, but now it is available to ordinary types like you and I if we just subscribe to the CULT of WOKE. I know I could only be a low-tier member and disposable ally as it were as a old white hetero-male who carries the "sins" of my heritage as an inescapable reality. 🤮 I can only be a stepping-stone for some trans-species-ist declaring their new found conceptive reality. Rubbish! How does some adhere to such insanity? There is no humor among the WOKE, just a sense of pending offense and injury, what a miserable way to live.

And finally . . .

There is no fate that cannot be surmounted by scorn. - Albert Camus

Salty, humorous, high definition scorn is some of the best medicine to receive from others and to provide to others. When done well, it lances all the mental and emotional boils and pustules that can form from the distortions of thought and emotion.

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XIII

The Proud Minister

One day there came into the Garden a man in torn clothes badly bruised and cut, who said to the Lover, “In the name of the Beloved I demand your help.”

So the Lover and the Disciple let him in and dressed his wounds and prepared the best of the vegetables from the Garden for him to eat.  When his wounds had been dressed and he had eaten and rested the Lover asked him how he had fallen into this plight, to which the man replied, “I was Minister of the Beloved in a city near this place, where I preached His gospel and expounded His doctrine to the people. I pointed out to them how their sins had made them wholly hateful to the Beloved and how therefore they were utterly beyond the range of His love and He would condemn them to eternal torments, whereon some fell into despair and wept bitterly but many were angry.  One day the magistrates called me before them and begged me to leave the city and preach elsewhere for they said I had made many people so angry and desperate that they feared there might be a riot and they might not be able to protect me but that I might suffer some injury.  I, however, very zealous for the Beloved and believing that the magistrates only feared that their own sins might be proclaimed, preached the more vehemently, denounced the magistrates and made it abundantly clear that the whole wicked city was foredoomed to eternal punishment by the just provision of the Beloved.  Whereon a mob, stirred up no doubt by the corrupt and venal magistrates, fell upon me with sticks and stones, nearly killing me and driving me out of the city in the state in which I came to you.”

“My friend,” said the Lover, “this was not a good deed of yours, for besides denying the unfathomable compassion of the Beloved, you have by your obstinacy caused these people to commit a grievous sin, and this cannot be pleasing to the Beloved, that through you who profess to be His minister the people should become worse.  Surely you remember that He Himself said, ‘If they persecute you in one city flee to another.’”

Therefore the man was very angry, and cursing the Lover, said, “I see that I have had a very false report of you and I do not believe that you are a servant of the Beloved at all.  When I came to you so injured for the Beloved’s sake you set before me only herbs and fruits although the garden is full of birds which you could have killed to make me a worthy meal.  I shall proclaim everywhere that you are no true servant of the Beloved but a mere falterer who dares not suffer in the cause of the Beloved.  Be sure that you are foreordained to eternal torments who suffer nothing here.”

For the man was so blinded by his own pride that he could not perceive the scars on the hands and feet and the brows of the Lover nor how the cloth beneath the armpits of his tunic was dyed with a red dye.  So he went out of the Garden cursing and shouting.

But the Lover looked sad and said, “A man like this does much harm to the cause of the Beloved, for by thus speaking falsely about the Beloved he may bring men to fear Him but none to love Him, and by love alone can any man approach the Beloved.”

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