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Good Morning Digitial Neighbors! Happy Cinco de Mayo to all you ADD Irregulars, WSN Imbibers, Friends, Refugees, Phamily & Misfits. Humor is a funny thing, not everyone has the same sense of humor and some people have no sense of humor at all. As I have said often, after faith, humor has been the greatest blessing in my life for keeping me grounded and attentive in my perspective. Sure, I am a bit off and warped at times, but mostly healthy and every grateful. Life is not as non-stop laugh track, of endless fun, but it is surprisingly good and even the rough chapters can yield good results down the road.

Offense is also a funny thing, it is found in the offended rather than the offender. It is something culturally conditioned and shaped by the various elements that contribute to a vibrant culture. When fully engaged with life and attentiveness, I know what offends me and what doesn't. I am the possessor of my emotional state and my mental response. Most days I would say master of my state as well, but the moment you think you have your crap together you usually step in it. Tread lightly!

If you are looking to find offense, life offers you an endless bitter buffet. It doesn't have to, but some have chosen to set their sights on anger rather than laughter or attentiveness as their main emotional/mental resting attitude. The pseudo-satisfaction and faux-joy of outrage, injury and insult is their participation trophy for wasting effort on all the wrong endeavors of life. It is a isolating reality, and yet these Embitters can find a type of company in the mobs that they manage to form. It looks like a community, but isn't. It is more often than not a unity against something rather than a unity for something. Not always, but often. Anyways, back to the Embitters, if you know one or many, you know a person who is slowly letting their humanity die on the altar of self-importance and outrage.

I'll settle for the alternating currents of laughter and meaning in my life with a lot of ordinary happening in between them to keep me open and curious about each new day and each person I meet. I'm not everyone's cup of coffee, especially once they know I am priest and have a given set of expectations that typically come with that, but I do my best to be me and be faithful to the Master.

I miss the days of my childhood in the late 60's & 70's, we seemed to have thicker skins and more laughter as a culture. It was not perfect, but there appeared to be more forbearance and a willingness to laugh at ourselves rather than looking for offense. Humanity is funny and culture pushes us into funny avenues of life, laughing at that is better than being bitter about it. Learning that others may laugh at something you find dear is part of getting along. With attentiveness, one can gauge the level of playfulness or spite, welcome playfulness, and give spite a double-barreled blast of humor and derision that it deserves. Many can dish it, but not take it. Well enough rambling for a Friday. Happy Cinco de Mayo dear neighbors!

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Good morning, digital neighbors! S.H.I.T - SURE HAPPY ITS THURSDAY! We had a radio personality say that every Thursday when he signed on to his program. It must have stuck for I still remember it to this day. Either way, welcome to a new day, and let's continue our visit with M. Scott Peck's collection of quotes.

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The Garden of the Beloved - Read by lady Clare
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Chapter 13 - The Proud Minister

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The Proud Minister

One day there came into the Garden a man in torn clothes badly bruised and cut, who said to the Lover, “In the name of the Beloved I demand your help.”

So the Lover and the Disciple let him in and dressed his wounds and prepared the best of the vegetables from the Garden for him to eat.  When his wounds had been dressed and he had eaten and rested the Lover asked him how he had fallen into this plight, to which the man replied, “I was Minister of the Beloved in a city near this place, where I preached His gospel and expounded His doctrine to the people. I pointed out to them how their sins had made them wholly hateful to the Beloved and how therefore they were utterly beyond the range of His love and He would condemn them to eternal torments, whereon some fell into despair and wept bitterly but many were angry.  One day the magistrates called me before them and begged me to leave the city and preach elsewhere for they said I had made many people so angry and desperate that they feared there might be a riot and they might not be able to protect me but that I might suffer some injury.  I, however, very zealous for the Beloved and believing that the magistrates only feared that their own sins might be proclaimed, preached the more vehemently, denounced the magistrates and made it abundantly clear that the whole wicked city was foredoomed to eternal punishment by the just provision of the Beloved.  Whereon a mob, stirred up no doubt by the corrupt and venal magistrates, fell upon me with sticks and stones, nearly killing me and driving me out of the city in the state in which I came to you.”

“My friend,” said the Lover, “this was not a good deed of yours, for besides denying the unfathomable compassion of the Beloved, you have by your obstinacy caused these people to commit a grievous sin, and this cannot be pleasing to the Beloved, that through you who profess to be His minister the people should become worse.  Surely you remember that He Himself said, ‘If they persecute you in one city flee to another.’”

Therefore the man was very angry, and cursing the Lover, said, “I see that I have had a very false report of you and I do not believe that you are a servant of the Beloved at all.  When I came to you so injured for the Beloved’s sake you set before me only herbs and fruits although the garden is full of birds which you could have killed to make me a worthy meal.  I shall proclaim everywhere that you are no true servant of the Beloved but a mere falterer who dares not suffer in the cause of the Beloved.  Be sure that you are foreordained to eternal torments who suffer nothing here.”

For the man was so blinded by his own pride that he could not perceive the scars on the hands and feet and the brows of the Lover nor how the cloth beneath the armpits of his tunic was dyed with a red dye.  So he went out of the Garden cursing and shouting.

But the Lover looked sad and said, “A man like this does much harm to the cause of the Beloved, for by thus speaking falsely about the Beloved he may bring men to fear Him but none to love Him, and by love alone can any man approach the Beloved.”

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