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October 29, 2025

Good morning, digital neighbors! Happy Wednesday, friends & refugees, early birds & late dayers, conversants, lurkers, and lost! Hello again, PHAM, all you misfits, politically homeless, and dawn-patrolling souls (I still miss Al and hope he is well)—and finally, all of you coffee talkers, ADD irregulars, WSN curators, and curmudgeons. Rain, rain, rain: It has been gray, damp, and slightly chilly the last few days here. We need the rain, but it has come so late that autumn foliage is somewhat muted this year. It's just a lot of brown, and down with the leaves. Off to a few quotes, some pithy comments and some photography generously provided by the internet. Happy Wednesday, dear neighbors!

There are only two people who can tell you the truth about yourself - an enemy who has lost his temper and a friend who loves you dearly. – Antisthenes

Be courteous to all, but intimate with few; and let those few be well tried before you give them your confidence. - George Washington, letter to his nephew, Bushrod Washington, 15 January 1783

We shall never have friends, if we expect to find them without fault. - Thomas Fuller, Gnomologia

As is oft repeated, we don’t need many friends, but to have none is to be among the most impoverished of souls. Having someone to know and love us, warts and all—who can encourage or call us out at the right time—is a rare gift. I think the latter part of friendship suffers more these days; fewer and fewer people have someone who loves them enough to help them round off the rough edges of their personality or unhealthy emotional fixations. Calling out friends these days usually risks losing them. It takes time to form a friendship, but often just one conversation to end it these days. We think people are just as easily replaced as other items, but we are fools to think that of our friendships. No friend is perfect, but to have no friends is disastrous.

Loneliness is one of our modern plagues—ironic when you think of all the means of connecting with people, and yet more and more feel lonely, disconnected, and adrift in life. When greater meaning is gone from life, depravity or inanity rushes in to fill the void. Online friendships have their own special rules, none of which I have really figured out other than “don’t be a dick,” which is a pretty good place to begin. Some relationships take off fast, but most are slow builders. However it happens, and when it does, it is a blessing. I think of Judy Thomas @Septuagenarian to this day and our early morning conversations on The Rubin Report in the days before Zoom or Teams. I am thankful that similar experiences happened at Phetasy and Triggernometry that ushered other good souls into my life.

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The Proud Minister

One day there came into the Garden a man in torn clothes badly bruised and cut, who said to the Lover, “In the name of the Beloved I demand your help.”

So the Lover and the Disciple let him in and dressed his wounds and prepared the best of the vegetables from the Garden for him to eat.  When his wounds had been dressed and he had eaten and rested the Lover asked him how he had fallen into this plight, to which the man replied, “I was Minister of the Beloved in a city near this place, where I preached His gospel and expounded His doctrine to the people. I pointed out to them how their sins had made them wholly hateful to the Beloved and how therefore they were utterly beyond the range of His love and He would condemn them to eternal torments, whereon some fell into despair and wept bitterly but many were angry.  One day the magistrates called me before them and begged me to leave the city and preach elsewhere for they said I had made many people so angry and desperate that they feared there might be a riot and they might not be able to protect me but that I might suffer some injury.  I, however, very zealous for the Beloved and believing that the magistrates only feared that their own sins might be proclaimed, preached the more vehemently, denounced the magistrates and made it abundantly clear that the whole wicked city was foredoomed to eternal punishment by the just provision of the Beloved.  Whereon a mob, stirred up no doubt by the corrupt and venal magistrates, fell upon me with sticks and stones, nearly killing me and driving me out of the city in the state in which I came to you.”

“My friend,” said the Lover, “this was not a good deed of yours, for besides denying the unfathomable compassion of the Beloved, you have by your obstinacy caused these people to commit a grievous sin, and this cannot be pleasing to the Beloved, that through you who profess to be His minister the people should become worse.  Surely you remember that He Himself said, ‘If they persecute you in one city flee to another.’”

Therefore the man was very angry, and cursing the Lover, said, “I see that I have had a very false report of you and I do not believe that you are a servant of the Beloved at all.  When I came to you so injured for the Beloved’s sake you set before me only herbs and fruits although the garden is full of birds which you could have killed to make me a worthy meal.  I shall proclaim everywhere that you are no true servant of the Beloved but a mere falterer who dares not suffer in the cause of the Beloved.  Be sure that you are foreordained to eternal torments who suffer nothing here.”

For the man was so blinded by his own pride that he could not perceive the scars on the hands and feet and the brows of the Lover nor how the cloth beneath the armpits of his tunic was dyed with a red dye.  So he went out of the Garden cursing and shouting.

But the Lover looked sad and said, “A man like this does much harm to the cause of the Beloved, for by thus speaking falsely about the Beloved he may bring men to fear Him but none to love Him, and by love alone can any man approach the Beloved.”

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