Good morning, digital neighbors! Happy Saturday! As we finish our week on friendship, I leave you with one of my favorite reflections on the subject. Zoomer @zoomerqc posted this a few years ago at Padre’s, and I hope that wherever he is, he is doing well. I am thankful for Phetasy, where I met Zoom and got to know him and his dogs, Bella and Crue. I thank him for bringing David Whyte into my life and his beauty and depth. His reflection on friendship is long; here is the audio link and a few sentences that stand out in this beautiful prose.
"An undercurrent of real friendship is a blessing exactly because its elemental form is rediscovered again and again through understanding and mercy."
"Friendship is a moving frontier of understanding, not only of the self and the other but also of a possible and as yet unlived future."
"The dynamic of friendship is almost always underestimated as a constant force in human life. A diminishing circle of friends is...
Today marks the three hundred and thirtieth birthday of the Frenchman François-Marie Arouet, better known by his nom de plume, Voltaire (1694-1778).
Born into a bourgeois family during the reign of Louis XIV, the “Sun King” (r. 1643-1715), Voltaire suffered tragedy at a young age when his mother died. Never close with his father or brother, Voltaire exhibited a rebellious attitude toward authority from his youth. His brilliant mind was fostered in the care of the Society of Jesus, who introduced him to the joys of literature and theater. Despite his later criticisms against the Church, Voltaire, throughout his life, fondly recalled his dedicated Jesuit teachers.
Although he spent time as a civil servant in the French embassy to the Hague, Voltaire’s main love was writing—an endeavor where he excelled in various genres, including poetry, which led to his appointment as the royal court poet for King Louis XV. Widely recognized as one of the greatest French writers, and even hyperbolically referred to by ...
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Quite apart from the fact that I utterly admire, even love, her, this is the best possible response to an idiot, who, in his defense, asked a pretty good question.
https://x.com/TBifford/status/2087992591279407133/video/1?s=61

Said the Disciple to the Lover, “Sir, before I left the world I heard certain men who were held in high esteem and thought to know the will of the Beloved say that those who loved the Beautiful did not love the Beloved but loved idols, yet in the Garden of the Beloved we are ever striving to create beauty for the pleasure of the Beloved. Were they then speaking the truth?”
The Lover answered, “Those who said this had never glimpsed the form of the Beloved nor ever truly sought Him, for all beauty is but the reflection of the beauty of the Beloved, although seen very dimly as in a dark and faulty mirror, even as all goodness is a dim reflection of the goodness of the Beloved. So it is that those who love beauty and goodness recognize dimly in them the form of the Beloved and though often in ignorance those who are seeking the Beautiful and the Good are seeking after the Beloved.”