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Good morning, Digital Neighbors! Happy Thursday! How about a few thoughts on friendship, along with some fitting quotes? Few things can make a bigger difference in a person’s life than a good friend. We don’t need many. Sometimes just one is enough to make our pilgrimage through life more bearable and joyful. Having a handful of them is a true abundance of riches.

I doubt any of us can have “lots” of friends, because the depth of sharing and time required to form a durable friendship simply takes time. Friendships come in all kinds of depths and degrees. I pray your life is blessed with some. If not, I hope you can find some degree of connection, understanding, and acceptance when you venture onto these intentional communities.

One can be friendly, welcoming, and genuinely interested in one’s neighbor, and that openness can become a springboard for some type of friendship. Again, the depth, degree, and bandwidth may vary. Some friendships may last only for a few chapters of our life, while others remain with us until the end.

Those lifelong friends are rare, and maintaining them is worth the effort. They know us because they have walked the journey with us. They have witnessed our growth, seen our screw-ups, and perhaps even endured some rough waters with us—as we have with them—and they are still here. Still with us. Still listening. Still performing that much-needed dance of sanity: accepting us while at the same time helping us overcome the extremes of our personalities that are often ruinous in familial or other relationships.

Friendships of depth do something nearly divine: they accept us as we are, but they also call us to be more—to strive to become the better person we ought to be. Somehow, they glimpse what is hidden to us and can patiently help us discover it. Friendships are depth need not be lifelong friends; they may enter our story at the right chapter and offer us a gift of understanding and an invitation of adventurous growth that might not otherwise happen. They are one of the happier experiences of life.

Friends are among the few people who can teach us new dance moves in the world of human relationships. Too often we find ourselves stuck in certain patterns inherited from family or set in place at work, with no way to break out of those set moves unless we are willing to make a break with the situation. That is rarely a happy decision, but I have known many over the years in ministry whose family “dance moves” were so set in dysfunctional concrete that exiting the situation was the only solution at the time.

Well, enough musing on friendship. I am thankful for the ones God has placed in my life—the one who has been with me through most of my story, a few mid-chapter additions, and the unique type of friendship this medium can afford when we connect with people and get to know them beyond the 👍 or ❤️ emojis. Have a great Thursday dear neighbors!

I would rather walk with a friend in the dark than alone in the light. —Helen Keller

Friendship is unnecessary, like philosophy, like art.... It has no survival value; rather it is one of those things which give value to survival. —C. S. Lewis

There are no faster or firmer friendships than those formed between people who love the same books. —Irving Stone

The capacity for friendship is God's way of apologizing for our families. —Jay McInerney

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The Proud Minister

One day there came into the Garden a man in torn clothes badly bruised and cut, who said to the Lover, “In the name of the Beloved I demand your help.”

So the Lover and the Disciple let him in and dressed his wounds and prepared the best of the vegetables from the Garden for him to eat.  When his wounds had been dressed and he had eaten and rested the Lover asked him how he had fallen into this plight, to which the man replied, “I was Minister of the Beloved in a city near this place, where I preached His gospel and expounded His doctrine to the people. I pointed out to them how their sins had made them wholly hateful to the Beloved and how therefore they were utterly beyond the range of His love and He would condemn them to eternal torments, whereon some fell into despair and wept bitterly but many were angry.  One day the magistrates called me before them and begged me to leave the city and preach elsewhere for they said I had made many people so angry and desperate that they feared there might be a riot and they might not be able to protect me but that I might suffer some injury.  I, however, very zealous for the Beloved and believing that the magistrates only feared that their own sins might be proclaimed, preached the more vehemently, denounced the magistrates and made it abundantly clear that the whole wicked city was foredoomed to eternal punishment by the just provision of the Beloved.  Whereon a mob, stirred up no doubt by the corrupt and venal magistrates, fell upon me with sticks and stones, nearly killing me and driving me out of the city in the state in which I came to you.”

“My friend,” said the Lover, “this was not a good deed of yours, for besides denying the unfathomable compassion of the Beloved, you have by your obstinacy caused these people to commit a grievous sin, and this cannot be pleasing to the Beloved, that through you who profess to be His minister the people should become worse.  Surely you remember that He Himself said, ‘If they persecute you in one city flee to another.’”

Therefore the man was very angry, and cursing the Lover, said, “I see that I have had a very false report of you and I do not believe that you are a servant of the Beloved at all.  When I came to you so injured for the Beloved’s sake you set before me only herbs and fruits although the garden is full of birds which you could have killed to make me a worthy meal.  I shall proclaim everywhere that you are no true servant of the Beloved but a mere falterer who dares not suffer in the cause of the Beloved.  Be sure that you are foreordained to eternal torments who suffer nothing here.”

For the man was so blinded by his own pride that he could not perceive the scars on the hands and feet and the brows of the Lover nor how the cloth beneath the armpits of his tunic was dyed with a red dye.  So he went out of the Garden cursing and shouting.

But the Lover looked sad and said, “A man like this does much harm to the cause of the Beloved, for by thus speaking falsely about the Beloved he may bring men to fear Him but none to love Him, and by love alone can any man approach the Beloved.”

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